BDSM food for thought...

[lorem angelum]

I thought this very thought provoking and interesting...I bet there are some of you out there that can add more?? Let's hear it...

just because someone is older does not make them more experienced...you can have a 50 yr old newbie

just because someone is younger does not make them inexperienced...you can have a 23 yr old with 4+ years experience

just because someone is an unattached sub does not mean any dominant can do anything to them at any time

just because a male is submissive it does not make him weak

just because you are an older more experienced dominant does not mean your unsolicited opinion or advice is always desired

just because you are a newbie it does not mean you are less important

just because you have a penis does not mean everyone wants to suck it

just because you own a leather vest does not automatically make you a master

just because you think the lifestyle is all about sex does not mean that everyone else does

just because you think it's cute for your baby girl to throw a fit in public doesn't mean other people do

just because someone comes to a function alone does not mean they are just waiting for you to come along and rescue them

just because you think you are gods gift to wo/man doesn't mean everyone else does

just because someone likes to be hit in a scene does not mean they will like it if you hit them without permission

just because someone has a bruise doesn't mean they want you to poke it

just because a body part is exposed doesn't mean they want everyone to grab it

just because someone does something differently them you does not make it wrong

just because you've read about it in a book or online doesn't mean it can safely be done in reality

just because you are a control freak does not mean you are a good dominate

just because you've seen it done does not make you ready to try it on someone

just because you think you're kink is too extreme doesn't mean you can't find someone to do it with

just because you find someone attractive does not mean they are interested in you

just because someone doesn't want to play with you does not mean the automatically dislike you

just because someone else likes to play a certain way does not mean you have to

just because you bottom to someone does not mean you have to submit to them

just because the top doesn't get hit doesn't mean they don't need aftercare

just because someone is naked doesn't mean they want you to touch them

just because you know someone doesn't mean they want you to say hi in the middle of a scene

[Sub-girl13]

I love it! That's beautiful

[subslutty. sneha]

As a sub I cannot agree with all of them but I liked some of the ideas.

[slaveboy88]

Awesom .

[Luha]

I'm a 49 year old newbie