where can i find a dominant to mentor me?

[masterjer8]

I'm lookin for someone to mentor me to become a good dominant to my wife. She has a dominant personality so I don't know where to begin to make her submissive. She really wants to be submissive. What do I do?

[VaAugusta]

I think a large part of being a "dominant" (in my own personal preference) is undertaking the obligations for myself. But that's just me. As a general rule, I think reading more posts than making them is a good idea as well. But I'd ask your wife what she is looking for in a "dominant" and then you might have a better idea of how to be more satisfying.

[masterjer8]

I'm figuring it out talking and like you said reading posts. Its going good so far.

[Nicipac]

What do you want out of this new lifestyle? Are you doing it 24/7 or have you established set playtimes? Is it strictly a sexual thing? Has she set any goals? I would ask a ton of other questions, but those should get you thinking about your role.