Hello all.

I've posted this same post on the sticky, but i think it's better placed here. If one needs to be removed, please let me know.

The thing is, i need some advice....

I'm just starting a serious D/s relationship with my wife. We're both in the early 30s and have been married for about 5 years.
Sex has just stalled recently and we've come to the conclusion that she needs to be controlled. We've played a bit before, but we now want to take it a few steps forward.

My first questions are:

Can a serious D/s relation exist solely sometimes (i love my wife very much and i like her non-submissive a lot - i don't want to loose that)?
And what steps should be made in order to assure a proper separation between both states? Steps for me and for her.

I trully apreciate any input regarding this question as well as any input on starting steps for serious D/s.

JamWish