I'm very interested in taking a few days away from real life and going to a slave/submissive training facility. I've heard they exist... but, I'm wondering if anyone knows of a very good/reputable one?

Just a little background.. I'm married.. but my husband and I don't have sex.. but I do have a lover who shares my interest in BDSM... I want to break through some barriers.. and free myself to be able to able to experience the submissive life more thoroughly.

And work through my fear of pain... and to get to the point where I can obey during acts of humiliation. Does anyone have any recommendations of some place I can go that can help "break me and train me"??