Hang with me for a minute as I try to define this question and put some real life examples behind it. I'm probably referring to two separate scenarios, but they both kind of fit together within the overall theme of this post.
I think stereotypically we classify men as being strong, confident... maybe uncaring at times. The 'man of the house' needs to be the support, strong and secure. Men don't cry.
Although most of us may not admit, I will... I do cry, heck even during some of those cheesy romantic movies. But I guarantee, this does not make me weak, or does it effect my ability to be Dominate in a relationship.
So I ask this. How do you view Master's feelings? Are they void, non-existent outside of making sure He is happy... insuring He is never upset? Or do you take great note of times when He may be sad, upset or depressed?
Back in March I lost my little pet who I loved with all of my heart. Maybe this is basic relationship discussion, but I seemed to go through a depression I had never experienced before with a typical break up. She meant something very special to me, I lost her, and no longer knew how to feel.
I know we can't expect to be emotionless when it comes to any type of relationship. But does this put a dent in the Masters figurtive 'armor' as He begins exploring new relationships and the topic comes up in conversation?
The second part to this can be expressed more through the occurance of everyday interaction. The emotional connection between the sub and Master can be overwhelming at times, but does it effect Master in the same way as it might the sub?
Anyways, some topics for you to hash out. I look forward to the replies.
- Adam