So i'm a bit of a newbie to this, but i have a question. I've always known that i've had this need in me to serve but never really acknowledged it. Always thought it was something psychologically wrong with me. But now, i know that it's a part of me and who i am. My question though, is that I have a boyfriend that i've completely just fallen head over heels for. I want to try and get him to experiment with me. The thing is that, he's a few years younger than me and has not developed a way to i guess, not premature ejaculate. He kind of takes off without me. In my mind, i think that's a little bump in the road that needs to be overcome for us to move on. What do you guys think i should do? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Marla