About a year ago I was finally able to gain a vocabulary for my likes and desires when it comes to my life after doing some investigation into the BDSM lifestyle. This I finally found something that I liked and had the words to describe it.

Though that is not really the reason for my creation of the thread, the city in which I live is not exactly, what I would say, active in the lifestyle....unless I have just not been able to find it. So I have turned to the internet to meet others in the lifestyle, just to chat, and share ideas and the like.

One thing that I have noticed is that most of the people in the lifestyle are usually 30+ years old. I was mainly wondering is this trend rather steady accross from what the rest of you out there have seen???