Alright, story: i have a friend, we'll call her A. She's a pretty close friend, but also someone i work with (which isn't as big an issue as you might think -- theatre people work a little differently than most...) AND she's completely into me. And not just me; A is completely a closet lesbian, and is just figuring this out. She was raised pretty conservatively, but as we got closer she found out about my past girlfriends, etc... once we even skipped class to check out the local strip club. (She's a hoot, lol, but SERIOUSLY)

We've also talked about some of our turn ons, etc... She's mentioned wax, blindfolds, rope bondage, and other fairly kinky things, so naturally that twisted little light in my head screams BDSM! However, if she's just now figuring out she's brave enough to maaaaaaybe try and tell a few friends she's gay (and is totally open to me hooking her up with a girlfriend, btw) -- should i press the BDSM button? With her background, i'm pretty sure she has no idea there's a name for what she's into... but even without knowing about the lifestyle, she's more or less asked me to Domme her before ("Can I be your girltoy?" oh lord... let it be said that i'm like 0% Domme, lol)

i just don't know what to do with her! Everytime she gets drunk i pretty much have to pry her hands out from under my shirt (as Sir chuckles, lol.) i'm afraid when i leave in the summer she's not going to have much of a support system; she's surrounded by conservative thinking, and while we work in the least conservative part of it all, i still wouldn't say the community is radically accepting. Any advice would be super appreciated =)