help i have a small apartment i share with my wife/sub and children. my prob is i need a way to suspend my subs hands above her head while giving us enough room to maneuver (i.e. door and wall mounted gear is usually insufficient) we have yet to find the ceiling beams for any ceiling mounted equipment and worse still have a need for discretion ( i.e no bulky crosses or other self standing equipment) if any of you wise souls can solve my dilemma it would be greatly appreciated.