It is funny --and I had never thought about it until I had some one on one talks with some new submissives---

What is a Submissive?

My definition is and this is by no means all it could be ---is someone who enjoys serving a Dom.

Someone who gets off on doing things a Dom has them do or does to them.
From simple bondage --to spanking or to the other more extreme BDSM lifestyles. The whole point is the sub enjoys it.


What I found was more that half of the new submissives were not really submissives at all.

But rather nice women who had a hard life, and had the rooted feeling that they had never pleased anyone in their life.

Yes these ladies will do all the things a submissive will do ---but they only enjoy the fact that they think they finally pleased someone.

Hey this is sad---because these ladies are very easy to take advantage of --these ladies are the ones that will get really hurt ---when some want to be Dom gets tired of the sex show and dumps them. Or they go beyond their levels and get physically hurt, trying to please someone.

Now if you think you are submissive , Please consider ---Do you really enjoy it. or do you just put up with it to please someone else?

I wish I had the time to talk to each and ever one ----But there are some really good subs here on the board ---Please if you have a doubt --talk to some of them before you commit to a Dom