we were wondering what everyone's definition of submissive is. Someone said the other day that dom/sub is not about sex. Sorry, for us it is!

Sylvie says for us, the definition of submissive is that if we disagree about anything, I win. (that's her short definition).

However, we want to know what you understand the term to mean, as it applies to you.

As a dom, what to you expect from your sub?

As a sub, what do you accept from your dom?

We bet there will be lots of variation in the definitions!!

Sylvie was going to ask this herself, but she can't get on-line tonight, her laptop ISP seems to be having a problem. That's why it's so quiet ....