My ex wants to strap on fuck me!!!

Okay, so here's the deal. I broke up with my ex a while back, and sex was one of the big reasons to be honest. Our sex was very inhibited and kind of crappy. I saw her once after we broke up, and we had sex- and it was GREAT! She was a little drunk so she didn't have her usual inhibitions- it was very vanilla with me caressing and taking care of her, eating her pussy and then having sex. Believe you me, I hate vanilla but when it's been so long since you've been touched it can feel pretty good :)

She HAD heard vaguely of my kinks but didn't seem to be that kind of girl. When we broke up though, something wild emerged itself in her- I guess she just got laid a few times (unlike me! lol) and probably learned to have fun being a freak. Last night, she actually brought up the topics of strap ons, asking me if I'd actually let a girl do that to me. I felt unmanly and shy, so I could hardly be honest. Finally I weakly uttered "yeah", and she actually got excited! She told me how abusive she'd be if she had a cock, and that she'd feel like a rapist. She told me it'd be cool to use and objectify guys AND girls with her cock, and then I told her about how some strap ons actually have little vibrators or dildos on the girl's end for her pleasure while fucking. This seemed to drive her wild and the thought of being able to take her pounding, ride her cock and suck her cock after it had been in me just made me feel like screaming.

I think for the first time, she started to get off to the thought of me tied and locked up at her mercy- The thought that she could actually have a cock and use it in a sexually invasive and violent way against me seemed to have done something to her :) The thought of my ex getting laid by bigger guys who give her a hard fuck one day and bending me over a table the next is doing something to my head...

There's a problem though... Which strap ons provide the best pleasure for the one wearing them? How much money is a good strap on? What's your favorite strap on? Which should we buy?

Thanks a lot.

Well, awesome. Good luck. :)

I don't have any experience with strap-ons, unfortunately. I've heard good things about the "Feeldoe", though, and it certainly seems like a neat concept.

Glad to hear you might get what you want. Prices will depend on which country you are in (likely to be cheaper online than in a shop). I'd advise getting a softer squishy dildo rather than a rigid hard one. In my experience, hard means pokey and uncomfortable - and not in a good way - but I have used a softer jelly-like one that is very enjoyable but can still be used hard and fast to good effect, without causing damage. It will not feel squishy when it is inside.

Also, will this be your first time with a strap-on? Even if it isn't your first time with it, sounds like it will be her first time using it. Might just be me, I'd be slightly worried about doing it for the first time with someone who is angling to be very aggressive with it. Being penetrated without being warmed up can be very painful, and not in an erotic way. At least make sure that if you ask (maybe with a safe-word), she will take it back out immediately. In my experience, if there is any pain it will be upon initial penetration. Once it's in, she can usually be as aggressive as she likes. Oh, and a towel/lots of tissues around the place is probably wise, as the end result can be a bit messy :(

All that having be said, hope it happens and that you enjoy it! I hope to see a write-up (or perhaps a story?) afterwards.

While I haven't used it much, I have the Nexus silicon double-ended dildo. It is really nice, but you do need to get a good harness for it. Once she has it ready to go, she can get a lot of thrusting power from it.

Wow, congrats!

Isn't that feeling of acceptance like the best thing in the world?