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After being ordered to find and fill out my first ever BDSM checklist (on Castlerealm was the site i was told to go to) i realized that i had a lot of the same activities with several different names. and after almost a year, i just went to adjust it as i have tried many new things and maybe want to try somethings i wouldnt have before, i realized that it really is confusing... does A/anyone know where i may find another one to compare it????
The academy here has one.....
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/academy/s...ead.php?t=5657
The following website also had one.... I quoted it.
http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bo...checklist.html
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This checklist should be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them. This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play. Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on their specific interests. Switches should go through the checklist twice; one persons Dom and Sub interests may be very different.
For each item, you need to provide two answers:
* For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
* For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.
o "?" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe.
o NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
o 0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").
o 1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
o 2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
o 3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
o 4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
o 5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
* Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.
* Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Dom to know in the margin to the right. For example under diapers you might wish to distinguish between "wetting" and "soiling".
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient/target of the activity.
Experience, Willingness Notes & Nuances
yes/no, NO or 0-5
Abrasion
Age play
Anal sex
Anal plugs (small)
Anal plugs (large)
Anal plug (public, under clothes)
Animal roles
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)
Aromas
Asphyxiation
Auctioned for charity
Ball stretching
Bathroom use control
Beastiality
Beating (soft)
Beating (hard)
Blindfolds
Being serviced (sexual)
Being bitten
Boot worship
Bondage (light)
Bondage (heavy)
Bondage (multi-day)
Bondage (public, under clothing)
Branding
Breast/chest bondage
Breast whipping
Breath control
Brown showers (scat)
Bruises
Cages (locked inside of)
Caning
Castration fantasy
Catheterization
Cattle prod (electrical toy)
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Chains
Chamber-pot use
Chastity belts (short term)
Chastity belts (multi-day)
Chauffeuring (driving)
Choking
Chores (domestic service)
Clothespins
Cock rings/straps
Cock worship
Collars (worn in private)
Collars (worn in public)
Competitions (with other Subs)
Corsets (wearing casually)
Corsets (trained waist reduction)
Cross-dressing
Cuffs (leather)
Cuffs (metal)
Cutting
Diapers (wearing)
Diapers (wetting)
Diapers (soiling)
Dilation
Dildoes
Double penetration
Electricity
Enemas (for cleansing)
Enemas (retention/punishment)
Enforced chastity
Erotic dance (for audience)
Examinations (physical)
Exercise (forced/required)
Exhibitionism (friends)
Exhibitionism (strangers)
Eye contact restrictions
Face slapping
Fantasy abandonment
Fantasy rape
Fantasy gang-rape
Fear (being scared)
Fisting (anal)
Fisting (vaginal)
Flame play
Following orders
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...)
Foot worship
Forced bedwetting
Forced dressing
Forced eating
Forced homosexuality
Forced heterosexuality
Forced masturbation
Forced nudity (private)
Forced nudity (around others)
Forced servitude
Forced smoking
Full head hoods
Gags (cloth)
Gags (inflatable)
Gags (phallic)
Gags (rubber)
Gags (tape)
Gas masks
Gates of Hell (male)
Genital sex
Given away to another Dom (temp)
Given away to another Dom (perm)
Golden showers
Gun play
Hairbrush spankings
Hair pulling
Hand jobs (giving)
Hand jobs (receiving)
Harems (serving w/other subs)
Harnessing (leather)
Harnessing (rope)
Having food chosen for you
Having clothing chosen for you
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)
Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus)
High heel wearing
High heel worship
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)
Hoods
Hot oils (on genitals)
Hot waxing
Housework (doing)
Human puppy dog
Humiliation (private)
Humiliation (public)
Hypnotism
Ice cubes
Immobilization
Infantilism
Initiation rites
Injections
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
Interrogations
Kidnaping
Kneeling
Knife play
Leather clothing
Leather restraints
Lectures for misbehavior
Licking (non-sexual)
Lingerie (wearing)
Manacles & Irons
Manicures (giving)
Massage (giving)
Massage (receiving)
Medical scenes
Modeling for erotic photos
Mouth bits
Mummification
Name change (for scene)
Name change (legal, permanent)
Nipple clamps
Nipple rings (piercings)
Nipple play/"torture"
Nipple weights
Oral/anal play (rimming)
Over-the-knee spanking
Orgasm denial
Orgasm control
Outdoor scenes
Outdoor sex
Pain (mild)
Pain (medium)
Pain (severe)
Persona training (in scene)
Personality modification (RL)
Phone sex (serving Dom)
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)
Phone sex (commercial provider)
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)
Piercing (permanent)
Plastic surgery
Prison scenes
Prostitution (public pretense)
Prostitution (actual)
Pony slave
Public exposure
Punishment Scene
Pussy/cock whipping
Pussy worship
Riding crops
Riding the "horse" (crotch torture)
Rituals
Religious scenes
Restrictive rules on behavior
Rubber/latex clothing
Rope body harness
Saran wrapping
Scarification
Scratching - getting
Scratching - giving
Sensory deprivation
Serving
Serving as art
Serving as ashtray
Serving as furniture
Serving as a maid
Serving as toilet (urine)
Serving as toilet (feces)
Serving as waitress/waiter
Serving orally (sexual)
Serving other doms (supervised)
Serving other doms (unsupervised)
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Shaving (body hair)
Shaving (genital hair)
Shaving (head hair)
Skinny-dipping
Sleep deprivation
Sleepsacks
Slutty clothing (private)
Slutty clothing (public)
Spandex clothing
Spanking
Speech restrictions (when, what)
Speculums (Anal)
Speculums (vaginal)
Spitting
Spreader bars
Standing in corner
Stocks
Straight jackets
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
Strapping (full body beating)
Suspension (upright)
Suspension (inverted)
Suspension (horizontal)
Supplying new partners for Dom
Swallowing feces
Swallowing semen
Swallowing urine
Swapping (with one other couple)
Swinging (multiple couples)
Tampon Training (in ass)
Tattooing
Teasing
TENS Unit (electrical toy)
Thumbcuffs (metal)
Tickling
Triple penetration
Urethral Sounds (metal rods)
Uniforms
Including others
Vaginal dildo
Verbal humiliation
Vibrator on genitals
Violet Wand (electrical toy)
Voyeurism (watching others)
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)
Video (watching others)
Video (recordings of you)
Water torture
Waxing (hair removal)
Wearing symbolic jewelry
Weight gain (forced)
Weight loss (forced)
Whipping
Wooden paddles
Wrestling
Willingness quick-key:
? Don't understand this item.
* I will do with current sex partner only.
NO I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).
0 No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).
1 Don't want to do, but will.
2 Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
3 Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
5 WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.
I have found checklists to either be very good or very bad. There are several out there that are not very clear on some off ht ethings they ask and repeat the same question like five times.... Castle realm for all the hoopla that people make over the site about how its so good and informative had a really crappy one and really was not what i expected after a good dozen people told me it was the best BDSM site ever....
Here is one that I filled out that wasn't half bad. I liked it because it had some specific questions abotu scenes and stuff, but its still not the best.
Quote:
Kink
Checklist
Finding out more about yourself...
The questions below will help you identify your main interests and will
probably point out a few things you're uncomfortable with and one or
two of your off-limits areas. If you have a partner this can be a great
tool for both of you - as well as for current and future conversations.
The checklist was originally designed to be answered by a submissive
but a dominant can easily use it by picturing themself on the other side
of the dynamic described.
This is not an interactive form at this time. So what you need to do is
just select the text of the checklist below and then copy and paste it
into your favourite text program (Notepad, BBEdit, Word) or even into
an email message to yourself if you like. Once you have your own copy of
this checklist you can follow the directions below.
BDSM-Fetish-Kink Checklist
Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just put a
number from one to six (1-6) in the box to indicate your response based
on this scale:
1. This is something I really do like/want.
2. This is fun, I like this.
3. I'm not sure, let's try it out.
4. I'm not really into this, but if it turns my partner on I don't
object.
5. This will turn me off, I don't like this.
6. This is an absolute no go.
Take your time for this and consider each question, situation or
indication carefully before answering.
Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs
me
[ ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ ] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[ ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ ] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ ] Your bedroom
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[ ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when
spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[ ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ ] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
I love the following attributes
[ ] Ropes
[ ] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ ] Silk to be tied with
[ ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
The following scenes appeal to me:
[ ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions
and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or
signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be
ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if
the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or
signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as
possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much
as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the
consequences are.
Others, please specify: ___________________________________
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I am a Dominant, Master or a Top
I am a submissive, slave or bottom.
My experience level is:
Beginner A little bit Average Alot Extensive
My sexual orientation is:
Straight Gay/Lesbian Bi-Sexual Bi-Curious
I prefer a relationship to be:
Monogamous Polyamorous Does not matter
In scene I prefer to wear the following: (check all that apply)
Denim Gothic Lace Latex/Rubber Leather
Other (explain):
I have Medical Conditions or Physical Limitations which M/my partner
should know about.
No
Yes
Explain:
Activity list
Click only one box per activity/column as multiple boxes can be checked
causing the results to be confusing to the O/one who receives them. If
Y/you accidentally click more then one simply click again on the one
Y/you don't want marked. If Y/you need it there is a "Reset" button at
the bottom of the Checklist that will clear the entire form.
In the interest column : "Limit" denotes a hard limit (lowest).
"Maybe"- you would only do it for the Dom/me/Top.
"Curious"- you would like to explore it further.
"OK" - an interest or like of the activity.
"Do it" - you definitely want that activity (highest)
Comments
Use this column to add any relevant comments Y/you have about that
paticular activity
Activity
Have Y/you participated
Interest in participating.
Comments
Abrasion No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Anal Sex No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Arm & leg sleeves No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Asphyxiation/Breath Play No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Bestiality No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Beating (soft) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Beating (hard) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Blindfolds No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Biting No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Breast bondage No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Branding No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Boot Worship No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Bondage - Soft No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Bondage Hard No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Breast Play - Soft No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Breast Play - Hard No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Brown Showers No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Caning No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Catheterization No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Chauffeuring No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Choking No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Chosen Food No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Chosen Clothing No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Clothes Pins No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Cock Worship No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Collars No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Corsets No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Cuffs No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Cutting No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Dilation No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Electric Play No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Enemas No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Examinations (physical) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Exhibitionism No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Face Slapping No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Fantasy Rape No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Fantasy Gang Rape No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Fire Play No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Fisting No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Flogging No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Following orders No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Foot worship No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Forced dressing No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Forced masturbation No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Forced Nudity No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Forced Servitude No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Full Head Hoods No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Gags No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Given Away/Sold No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Golden Showers No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Hair Brushes No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Hair Pulling No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Hand Jobs (getting) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Hand Jobs (giving) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Head (getting) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Head (giving) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
High Heel Worship No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Homage with Tongue No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Hot Waxing No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Human Puppy Dog No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Humiliation (privately) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Humiliation (publicly) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Humiliation (verbal) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Ice Play No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Including Others in Scene No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Infantilism No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Injections No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Interrogations No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Kidnapping No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Knife/Edge Play No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Kneeling No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Latex/Rubber Fetish No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Leather Fetish No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Licking No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Massages (getting) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Massages (giving) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Medical Scenes No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Mummification No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Mouth Bits No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Nipple Clamps No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Nipple Weights No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Oral Fixation No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Over The Knee Spanking No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Orgasm Control/Denial No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Penetration (double) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Penetration (triple) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Piercing (permanent) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Piercing (play/temp) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Phone Sex No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Pony Play No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Pussy Whipping No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Pussy Worship No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Riding Crops No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Roleplaying No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Religious Scenes No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Scat Play No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Scent Play No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Scratching No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Sensory Deprivation No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Servitude No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Serving as Furniture No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Sexual Deprivation No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Shaving No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Spanking No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Speculums (anal) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Speculums (vaginal) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Spreader Bars No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Stocks No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Stocking Worship No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Straight Jackets No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Strap on Dildos No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Suspension No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Supplying Victims No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Swapping/Swinging No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Tattoos No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Teasing No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Tickling No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Uniforms No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Video Taping scenes No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Voyeurism No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Whipping (singletail) No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Wrestling No Yes
Limit Maybe Curious OK Do it
Additional Comments This is a good place to expand on any specialized
play or perhaps detail a favorite scene or fantasy.
thanks...