Male Orgasm on Demand

I read the entire thread of Orgasm on Demand. I enjoyed it a lot and can actually visualize the type of control that is reported over a woman’s orgasm. There were a few comments made about the subject of the male’s orgasm but it was passed over lightly without too much detail or explanations other than mind control.

I would like to get a discussion started along those lines about a controlled male’s orgasm. I’ll state up front that if there are any Mistresses wishing to experiment on a male subject like in the other thread I mentioned, I am not volunteering nor can I be drafted, (again.)

I can see and imagine all the frustrations of having an orgasm denied just by stopping physical or mental stimulation. I say mental because I do realize that the mind is the largest sex organ the body has. Physical stimulation, other then in wet dreams, I believe is essential to achieve a meaningful male orgasm, so I can see that stopping it or denying it would cause the person to be frustrated and not cum. Again, just to be clear, I can see the denial of a male orgasm being forced upon one if it is done before that last second when there is no return. However, I am having a very difficult time visualizing or even imagining how just the mere utterance of any word, phrase, or sentence could cause a male to orgasm. Believe me I have no idea if I am right about this. It is just how it seems to me.

What I would like to ask is: Is there anyone who knows of any actual instances when right out of the blue, without any advanced warning, in a public place or otherwise where just a verbal command from a Dominant has caused a male to cum? I’m talking just the utterance of the trained word or phrase with absolutely no physical stimulation involved causing the orgasm to occur.

Thanks for listening or reading in this case.

Well I've been wondering about this - people are saying it would be harder with a male, but I figured it could be done just as easily.
I wanted to try this with my slave because we both find the idea very hot indeed.
I don't know how it'd feel for him of course, but I figured it'd be pretty mean if I could actually make him come in public - it's messy and obvious. I know the ejaculation can be isolated from the orgasm but is it possible the other way round with men?
I am a noob in this subject, but very interested and I'll keep watching this thread.

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Originally Posted by Mistress Florence

I don't know how it'd feel for him of course, but I figured it'd be pretty mean if I could actually make him come in public - it's messy and obvious.

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Mistress Florence,

Let's say for the sake of argument, you always forced your slave to wear a diaper in public. That gets rid of one obstacle, but to my way of thinking, I don't believe the main one.

My ever shy Nat says that he's experienced "climax on demand" training for a male. But in order for it to work, he had to have a hardon in the first place.

From limp to orgasm - no.

From hard on to climax - yes.

His former owner was into denial and would keep his male slave(s) hard for hours...if they started to soften, he would have other slaves immediately tease them to an erection.

The "orgasm on demand" was acheived by giving permission for them to cum.

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Originally Posted by Ruby

My ever shy Nat says that he's experienced "climax on demand" training for a male. But in order for it to work, he had to have a hardon in the first place.

From limp to orgasm - no.

From hard on to climax - yes.

His former owner was into denial and would keep his male slave(s) hard for hours...if they started to soften, he would have other slaves immediately tease them to an erection.

The "orgasm on demand" was acheived by giving permission for them to cum.

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Ruby,

Thanks for the input and it is very believable. It is along the lines of what I suspected. I could see no way for a word or a phrase to cause a climax in public or elsewhere without first stimulation having occurred.

I thought there would be more input to this thread but maybe it is helping prove the theory of the "Myth of the Male Orgasm." Maybe we have been faking it all these years. Yeah, right!!!!!

One question that comes to mind, if I may ask. Once permission was given to cum was it achieved without further stimulation or did he have to masturbate or have some other means to accomplish the end result? Sorry but I am curious.

Anyway, it is good to hear about at least one real life experience. Thanks again.

I think this is a great topic, but it brings up so many questions-- Can a guy ejaculate without being hard first? Can he have an orgasm without ejaculating?

Of course guys can get hard without direct contact, and Ruby, it sounds like you're saying Nat has come without direct contact (it has to be physically possible, because it can happen in your sleep).

Maybe it's a two-step process?

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Originally Posted by Blue_Monday

I think this is a great topic, but it brings up so many questions-- Can a guy ejaculate without being hard first? Can he have an orgasm without ejaculating?

Of course guys can get hard without direct contact, and Ruby, it sounds like you're saying Nat has come without direct contact (it has to be physically possible, because it can happen in your sleep).

Maybe it's a two-step process?

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I think there is something called "milking" that makes you ejaculate without having an orgasm. I think it has something to do with massaging the prostrate. I believe that is what I read but I could be way off base here. Maybe someone else is more familiar with that subject.

I'm really interested so thanks for discussing!
Yeah, the milking thing is right, I read it on a chastity device website - it's important to get rid of the old sperm for health reasons, and regularly 'flush' out, but people who are doing intense orgasm denial will tend to do it this way, without orgasm.
It'd be great, Ruby, if you could pass on some more info from Nathaniel. Has any other male sub done this?! Please speak out!

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Originally Posted by Mistress Florence

I'm really interested so thanks for discussing!
Yeah, the milking thing is right, I read it on a chastity device website - it's important to get rid of the old sperm for health reasons, and regularly 'flush' out, but people who are doing intense orgasm denial will tend to do it this way, without orgasm.
It'd be great, Ruby, if you could pass on some more info from Nathaniel. Has any other male sub done this?! Please speak out!

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Mistress Florence,

I really thought this would generate more interest than it has. Again maybe it is because it is very rare in a male that cumming on demand happens in real life.

On the milking subject. I believe I read on one of those WEB sites about a devise that is supposed to massage the prostrate and cause the "milking" to occur. The male gets the "drainage" without the pleasure of an orgasm. Sounds like a cruel devise but if it works, it sure would be a great way to control a submissive's pleasures, wouldn't it? As a matter of fact, I saw a picture of the devise at the site where I purchased my chastity cage (still love it BTW.) I wasn't interested in the milking device but some here may want to look into it.

You don't suppose that there are men who can be made to cum on demand that are to shy to post about it, do you? I know if it were me I would brag about it because that would mean that a Mistress really had control over me. Only a fantasy for most, I believe. I'm only talking about the cumming on demand aspect of BDSM, nothing else.

Hope we can get more interest especially since your interested in seeing some more posts, as am I.

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Originally Posted by Mistress Florence

I'm really interested so thanks for discussing!
Yeah, the milking thing is right, I read it on a chastity device website - it's important to get rid of the old sperm for health reasons, and regularly 'flush' out, but people who are doing intense orgasm denial will tend to do it this way, without orgasm.
It'd be great, Ruby, if you could pass on some more info from Nathaniel. Has any other male sub done this?! Please speak out!

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Mistress Florence,

Because of the lack of testimonials I'm beginning to think that this doesn't occur, at least not often. Again the Myth of the Male Orgasm strikes.

It was worth a try to see if it actually was possible in real life. Too bad, think of the interesting possibilities. While walking through a very busy public place the right words causing an instant erection and then the male creaming his jeans. That would be hard to hide from the viewing public. Kind of funny just thinking about it.

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Originally Posted by Warbaby1943

Ruby,

Thanks for the input and it is very believable. It is along the lines of what I suspected. I could see no way for a word or a phrase to cause a climax in public or elsewhere without first stimulation having occurred.

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You are spot on. Mental or physcial stimulation is important as is arousal. It's one thing to order a teased and pent up sub to climax immediately, versus ordering one with a limp penis to do so.

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One question that comes to mind, if I may ask. Once permission was given to cum was it achieved without further stimulation or did he have to masturbate or have some other means to accomplish the end result? Sorry but I am curious.

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It's not always about masturbation.

Nat says, "It depends on the male sub and their turn ons. That once a sub is erect and ready to go, that sub might not need direct stimulation on his erection, yet he can still climax. Perhaps its during a spanking, cropping, flogging, a cuddling, or stimulating other erogenous zones. The dom knows his sub and during this type of training, will associate the command with the stimulation the sub requires to perform. The dom must set the sub up for success."

We both know a male sub who could climax when his breasts were stimulated and not his penis. (Though he did have to be hard before he came.) His master took great delight in this and had females torment him while his cock was bound to prevent an "accidental climax". Usually by the time he was unbound, he was ready to pop.

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So, shy male subs out there? Have you experienced this climax on demand training? What worked and didn't work for you? Enquiring minds want to know and learn.

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Originally Posted by Ruby

Nat says, "It depends on the male sub and their turn ons. That once a sub is erect and ready to go, that sub might not need direct stimulation on his erection, yet he can still climax. Perhaps its during a spanking, cropping, flogging, a cuddling, or stimulating other erogenous zones. The dom knows his sub and during this type of training, will associate the command with the stimulation the sub requires to perform. The dom must set the sub up for success."

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So, shy male subs out there? Have you experienced this climax on demand training? What worked and didn't work for you? Enquiring minds want to know and learn.

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Ruby,

Sorry I didn't see your response earlier and for some reason I didn't get notified about it with an email, as usually happens.

Anyway, thanks for the response and again I know that the spanking part of your quote did a number on me, as we have previously discussed. The mind is a terrible thing to lose control of!!!!!!!

Do you think the male subs are just being shy. Man, what better place to discuss this subject when one can remain completely anonymous here. I sure know embarrassment but you can't see my red face, can you?

Not many real life experiences bring talked about here. I think that in itself is significant.