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When you first decided to follow the d/s lifestyle, what was the first thing you did, or had done to you?
Was it a little bit of light bondage? Or a spanking? Or maybe you were ordered to please your dom. with no pleasure for you?
There seem to be some people here that are fairly new to this, and I just thought we could give them some ideas ...
First thing I was urged publically to do as a Dom was to apply liquid latex to a suspended sub at the Phoenix Society in Baltimore--I was hooked--not on the latex though--applying it was great but I'd prefer warm baby oil...
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Originally posted by LadyAmanda
When you first decided to follow the d/s lifestyle, what was the first thing you did, or had done to you?
Was it a little bit of light bondage? Or a spanking? Or maybe you were ordered to please your dom. with no pleasure for you?
There seem to be some people here that are fairly new to this, and I just thought we could give them some ideas ...
I'm a smart ass. I've always been. I acted up with one of my boyfriends whom I knew was into SM to try and get myself into a little trouble. It worked all too well! He grabbed my hair, put me over his knee, spanked the hell out of my little bottom, tied me to a bed with silk scarves, and fucked me senseless. I loved it! The feeling of helplessness... of being objectified... of submitting to his will for his pleasure... I was addicted to those things immediately. I had to have more.
The first submissive thing I did was give LadyAmanda a slipper, and ask her to spank me with it.
She did it, but she was so upset about 'hurting' me that she ended up in tears. I didn't, she hardly even hurt me with it.
Ah, we've come a long way, Baby!
Sylvie - who should have bronzed that slipper ...
My 2nd fiance' use to stradle my head and fuck my face with her pussy.
I remember I would masterbate and cum immediately... That was a major accomplishment for me, I never cum easily...
I was hog-tied on my knees, blindfolded, gagged, and left that way for a while while he sat in a chair and observed me. When he was happy and I was untied (and extremely sore), I had to write an essay on how I felt.
It took hours to do, because I could not sit comfortably, my legs were so sore, my arms were shaking and I was in mental turmoil.
Obviously I wrote something right, as we were together nearly 7 years (he died).
*soft smile*...
His first order was to "calm down".... and i did... i'm not sure He was talking to my soul...but that was what His words calmed...and in that moment he became my Master...
*grin* he was giving me my safe words ... and offering to be my Dom....when it happened...
You know, that is a tough question to answer for me. It was kind of a whirlwind of activity. Not only did I move from Canada from the town I had always lived in of 10,000 people to moving to Houston USA, a city of 6 million to meet a person I had only talked to online. I guess that in itself would be a submissive move.
Then he slapped a collar on me right there in the airport lol. You should have seen the looks on people's faces as he led us through the airport to the car on leashes!
*SWOON!* Oh, that's fantastic!Quote:
Originally posted by Finding_Fantasy
he slapped a collar on me right there in the airport lol. You should have seen the looks on people's faces as he led us through the airport to the car on leashes!
My first is boring comparatively. All I did was agree to be tied to a bed.
(chuckles) Well it was definitely an eye opening experience. It was a bit strange especially since it was the first thing I had done in real life. Since then, I have seen and done a bit more. Some of what I have seen I cringe at the thought of!
I am by no means hardcore but it was a good start. :)
As an eight year old I enticed a friend to tie me to a chair in the attic room we were playing in, and said it was a 'charlies angels' type game...if I could struggle to get free, I won. I then (full of the folly of youth) also asked her to put a plastic bag on my head to make it more 'interesting'. She went downstairs to watch Scooby Doo and was busy watching Daphne capture the villain when she heard a thump from upstairs. This was a semi conscious me falling over in the chair. She untied me but was a bit surprised that I didnt cry and tell her I didnt want to be her friend any more. In fact, she got invited over quite a lot after that *s*
Well, Charlies Angels was a bit ahead of my time - but I most definitely played 'cops & robbers!' I always made sure to be the one that got kidnapped, and my rescuer always had to kiss me when I was free. Guys or girls I didn't care! My parent's never thought much of it that I know of....but my mom never could find that silk scarf again!
charlies anels ahead of your time?
gosh...i suddenlyfeel decrepid lol.
I remember stirrings down below when any of the angels got chloroformed..the 'hmmmph hmmmmph' then the descent into sleepiness, and waking up gagged and bound.....grooooooan
:)
Nice to see I'm not the only one with an interest in plastic bagsQuote:
Originally posted by feisty sub
As an eight year old I enticed a friend to tie me to a chair in the attic room we were playing in, and said it was a 'charlies angels' type game...if I could struggle to get free, I won. I then (full of the folly of youth) also asked her to put a plastic bag on my head to make it more 'interesting'. She went downstairs to watch Scooby Doo and was busy watching Daphne capture the villain when she heard a thump from upstairs. This was a semi conscious me falling over in the chair. She untied me but was a bit surprised that I didnt cry and tell her I didnt want to be her friend any more. In fact, she got invited over quite a lot after that *s*
:)
pam.....you and me both
i could write a book.....if only i could catch enough breath to do it
lol
x
My first D/ s experience was getting into trouble. My contract started at midnight on Febuary 18th 2003. My Mistress called me in the morning and what were the first words out of my mouth. (Hay baby good morning) *blush*Quote:
Originally posted by LadyAmanda
When you first decided to follow the d/s lifestyle, what was the first thing you did, or had done to you?
Was it a little bit of light bondage? Or a spanking? Or maybe you were ordered to please your dom. with no pleasure for you?
There seem to be some people here that are fairly new to this, and I just thought we could give them some ideas ...
At least it wasn't as bad as trying to get my goat by calling your collar "stupid." :pQuote:
Originally posted by Shellyfemme
My first D/ s experience was getting into trouble. My contract started at midnight on Febuary 18th 2003. My Mistress called me in the morning and what were the first words out of my mouth. (Hay baby good morning) *blush*
:( hang head down in shameQuote:
Originally posted by kittenfemme
At least it wasn't as bad as trying to get my goat by calling your collar "stupid." :p
It will never ever happen again.
I guess the first submissive thing I did was ask my girlfriend to sit on top of me and cover me in clothes pegs.. was a lot of fun.
still need her to take the initiative though.. oh well, shes a smart enough cookie.
We'd been married a year and had nothing but vanilla sex 3 to four times a day. (We were teenagers)
I walked into the kitchen one day and he asked me to turn around, and bend over, and pull my panties down. My face was burning with embarassment, but I complied. To my complete surprise and humiliation he placed his finger covered with butter on my anus and slowly pushed it in. He had never touched me there before. When he saw how aroused it made me, he knew he could demand more, and he did. That was the beginning of the road we have taken. I still get aroused thinking of it 29 years later.
woodsman'sgame! *purr!* That's fantastic!
Thats kinky enough in my book! LOL... sounds like you two get along well then :DQuote:
Originally posted by woodsman'sgame
We'd been married a year and had nothing but vanilla sex 3 to four times a day!!!!
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Thats kinky enough in my book! LOL... sounds like you two get along well then
I guess it was a little bit of an exaggeration. Sometimes we only did it twice. ;)
Remember what you were like at eighteen.
Heh, I don't have to. I know what I'm like now. :DQuote:
Originally posted by woodsman'sgame
I guess it was a little bit of an exaggeration. Sometimes we only did it twice. ;)
Remember what you were like at eighteen.
LOL Kittenfemme, I know what you mean. The tables are turned. I'm at my peak and he isn't a teenager anymore. It's his turn to be worn out.:DQuote:
Originally posted by kittenfemme
Heh, I don't have to. I know what I'm like now. :D
of course i remember what i was like at 18! it was only 2 years ago! LOLQuote:
Originally posted by woodsman'sgame
LOL Kittenfemme, I know what you mean. The tables are turned. I'm at my peak and he isn't a teenager anymore. It's his turn to be worn out.:D
you're right though, we just can't lay off it.
now.. i'm off to have a kip and dream up what i'm gonna do when the girlfriend gets back
well, this is what my subbie experienced as her first...she was 18 years 2 months odd...and this was two years back...
she came to my farmhouse around an hour late, so naturally, the punishment started then itself.
first off she was tied with arms pulled up high overhead til she was suspended by her wrists. i stimulated her, then when she was good and wet, and a bit loud, her panties went into her mouth. then followed an hour's whipping on her front only. i used a hundred clothespins on her tits alone, then whipped them off with a rattan cane. next was a strappado which had her in tears, since she was nearly hanging, and resting only on knee points. back and ass floggin, hot waxing, caning for two hours. then bastinado and feet-waxing for the next half an hour. finally i tied her in a hogtie, with hair, ballag and elbowes tied to feet. then having flipped on her back, she was suspended by a crotchrope...well, only her toetips touched ground, and with me constantly whipping her gorgeous tummy, she was crying for an orgasm. so i tied her nipples off to the ceiling, then hoisted her up by them, them took her in that position. when we had finished, i tied her, by her own request, back in the crotch pull postion for the rest of the night, with three candles burning below her back, and four over her, dripping one directly on her pussy, another into her dental-gagged mouth, other two on her nipple-pulled tits.
it was one wonderful session...
I've been lurking for quite a bit but that's pushed me to make my first post - that was hot! :p
The first submissive thing that I did was to meet my lover at the door of my appartment completely naked. Thus we spent the afternoon together. I cooked, had dinner, watched TV and read to my lover while I contemplated the difference clothes can make. I felt so helpless, so submissive yet so true to myself, overcoming my shyness in front of a fully clothed person. I loved the feeling. To this day the sexiest thing I can say to my lover is "I love being naked next to you"
Hi all,
Interesting topic.
I am reletavily new to BDSM so the first thing i did was allow a boyfriend who was heavily into the local scene here place a leather collar around my neck whilst we made love one night.
In no way did he Dominate me through bondage or other means but it simply made me feel I was his and keen to do all I could to please him.
Simple yet very effective.