I'm lookin for someone to mentor me to become a good dominant to my wife. She has a dominant personality so I don't know where to begin to make her submissive. She really wants to be submissive. What do I do?
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I'm lookin for someone to mentor me to become a good dominant to my wife. She has a dominant personality so I don't know where to begin to make her submissive. She really wants to be submissive. What do I do?
I think a large part of being a "dominant" (in my own personal preference) is undertaking the obligations for myself. But that's just me. As a general rule, I think reading more posts than making them is a good idea as well. But I'd ask your wife what she is looking for in a "dominant" and then you might have a better idea of how to be more satisfying.
I'm figuring it out talking and like you said reading posts. Its going good so far.
What do you want out of this new lifestyle? Are you doing it 24/7 or have you established set playtimes? Is it strictly a sexual thing? Has she set any goals? I would ask a ton of other questions, but those should get you thinking about your role.