the Master who i have now likes me to call all other Masters Sirs all Doms Sirs and all Dommes Misses not unless they state that i dont have to what does your Dom, Masters, Dommes like you to call them
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the Master who i have now likes me to call all other Masters Sirs all Doms Sirs and all Dommes Misses not unless they state that i dont have to what does your Dom, Masters, Dommes like you to call them
Not sure if i understand the post but are you asking a question or our opinions on the issue?
@ angelic_zest Master has always told me to be polite to other Doms, Masters, Dommes by calling them Sir or Miss. So how would your Sir, Master, Dommes like you to address them. i hope that this explains in more detail in what i mean
My Master isnt strick onwhat I call other Doms or or Dommes. Only thing He asked of me is not to call other Doms "Master" To Him i am only to call Him "Master" because He is my Master noone else.
Sounds like a submissives form question, but I'll interject since it's not there. ;)
You don't have to call a Dominant Sir or Miss in order to be polite. Please and thank you go a very long way. Even in the nilla realm. Asking a Dominant how they wish to be addressed would be a better approach IMO. If you were to ask me such a question, my response would be "call me whatever you feel fits, if Sir or Master are the title you view me in, then by all means use that. If you would prefer to just use my name, that is fine also."
My personal belief is that a person will view me as I am. I shouldn't have to tell them, nor do I have the right to tell them how to address me. Politeness works both ways as I see it. If you view me as Sir, Lord, Master, God, Oh Benevolent One, Your Highness, The Exhausted, Bastard, Asshole, Fucker, Sadist, etc etc that is the title you should use. If a person prefers to use just my name, ID or my first name (if we know each other that way), that works just fine too.
Its really up to the individual dynamic between partners.
Ive had lots of different dominants before, they all had their own way of utilizing honorific titular distinctions, even if their way was to exclude them.
I personally have a tendency to reserve "Master" for when I am speaking directly to my Owner, and Sir or Maam for those I respect or sence dominance from who have not instructed me to do otherwise, but I am under no specfic orders to do so.
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Originally Posted by singletaillover
OK back to the original question..
My Master likes me to call them Sirs or Miss.. This how i was trained as well .. He is the only one i am to call Master .. just like you hun... Unless they prefer different or have treated me with disrespect or others that i have seen first hand or my Master has seen first hand..
I think that is what you were looking for in an answer.. Hope so..
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snow
I call my master sir, i call all other people by their name/addy, this is because my sir likes it this way, obviously i am polite but he prefers that he is the only one who i say those things to, this may be because he hasnt quite settled on what title he wants.
@ snowflake that is exactly what i wanted and thank you
Master expects me to be polite, unless the person has shown they aren't worthy of respect. He doesn't expect me to call other Doms/Dommes 'Sir' or 'Miss' In fact he prefers that I don't. He prefers me to use their name or nickname. I call him Master, and certainly no one else that.
@OP
While I was with other they left it up to me to use the term that best fits that person. Whoever I was talking with, as long as they showed that they were worthy of me talking with them. Not everyone deserves to be called "sir, ma'am(i dont call females ma'am)", I will show them respect because that was how i was brought up, how i was raised as a child. My mother always, always, always wanted me to show respect to everyone, just because i am submissive and with a dominant male, doesnt mean that i forgot out to be polite or sweet to other. Now if i was with someone wanted me to use those terms, then we would really have to speak about it. Not everyone deserves them so i rather use their nicks, or their real names.