Sounds like the thread has changed
Suddenly we aren't talking about clit hood removal or piercing.
Do you practice or play anally? My wife (sub) has quite a lot more sensation and stimulation of the 'G' spot from anal penetration. She has reached orgasm very few times through vaginal entry alone, but nearly everytime with just anal entry (without vibrator or finger play on the clit or pussy). That's all through stiulation of the 'G' spot. Plus, it will make hubby do a bit of work and foreplay getting you comfy for anal penetration. Try it with a strapon clit vibe like the butterfly or ladybug ones. You can put them right over the clit and he can pound away on your ass or pussy. Even if you have a small or discreet clit, the 'G' spot is always there and ready to go. Another thing that I have done to my sub is to use a clit pump to make her incredibly sensative to stimulation and engorge her clit. Wonderful sensations for her (at least that's what I take the screaming and begging to cum as :) ).
Have fun. You sound like a wonderful sub pain slut. Please don't take that as an offense, but, getting your ass beat to cum...?