Dressing Up

I have always enjoyed the 'masquerade' aspect of BDSM and love to put on leather, rubber and other fetishwear to play, or even lounge about. Recently, even for my online sessions I have been putting on a bit of my 'Dom'-wear.

Here's the question: Do you find that you enjoy any/all BDSM activities MORE while dressed the part? Do you have a favorite 'costume' that you or your partner has designed for play? Or everyday wear? How often do you go out with just a little bit of fetish-wear on to remind yourself of your status?

I have a few costumes I like, but prefer a basic leather. One costume I'd love to wear is a police state/military/fascist interrogator type uniform, but only for 'special' occasions.

Mastrovenice

i'm the totally inexperienced one around here.. but i love being the submissive i'm. never have played online so don't know about that either, but when i come here to chat, i usually dress in something.. well not sure if sexy is the word, but love wearing just a short cami and panties . sometimes high heels, so i *feel* taller. when i go out, depending on the mood and my naughtiness.. yes i have been known to go out without panties.. it gives me a bit of a vulnerable feeling. Not sure if that makes sense. love wearing a corset to the club, with the waist cinched really tight, again it reminds me who and what i'm. A few weeks ago went to a bdsm leather event, darn some of the men really looked hot in their leathers.. in more ways then one. And i must say.. i love a man in uniform.. that can be sooo hot.

dressing up is fun and depending on the scenario can add a lot of atmosphere and more reality which to me makes it even more enjoyable :) plus it can make people feel more sexy.
going out is fun with a 'reminder' too, fetish wear at events or even at 'vanilla' fancy dress partys ...you can get away with allsorts hehe or just going to the local shops in a simple breast/crotch harness, clamps,bells etc or certain types of underwear can make you feel very different and it sometimes makes me feel a bit vulnerable too which is a turn on.
the only thing i dont like although i guess in all honesty its a bit judgemental especially as i enjoy exhibitionism is when people go way ott with it simply just to prove a point and shout out hey look at me im different in regular public places.

I have an OL friend that I often dress up for when we meet. A favorite of ours is "doggie girl -where I do my ears (pull my hair up),mitts on hands and feet , a collar and the requisit tail on the butt plug. Dressing up really sets the mood and even OL I believe it makes it better for both partners.

i always dress up in heels and i put on my makeup.

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Originally Posted by chalsia

i'm the totally inexperienced one around here.. but i love being the submissive i'm. never have played online so don't know about that either, but when i come here to chat, i usually dress in something.. well not sure if sexy is the word, but love wearing just a short cami and panties . sometimes high heels, so i *feel* taller. when i go out, depending on the mood and my naughtiness.. yes i have been known to go out without panties.. it gives me a bit of a vulnerable feeling. Not sure if that makes sense. love wearing a corset to the club, with the waist cinched really tight, again it reminds me who and what i'm. A few weeks ago went to a bdsm leather event, darn some of the men really looked hot in their leathers.. in more ways then one. And i must say.. i love a man in uniform.. that can be sooo hot.

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Hi as a very sub girl, I love to fantasise that a dom guy is chaining me up and using me, always wondered why this is so strong.

Would like to ask if you know why the chat does not seem to work now.

love salina, would be servile slave xx