I don't know WHAT I did wrong....

Assuming I was on the right page as him, I assumed he wanted to be my Dom. I've had surgery and not been myself.... he's been so sweet. He requested some specific photos... and on 1 I said no because I was not feeling well... I emailed it hours later. I felt so displeasing to him and ashamed. I apologized. Days have passed. I've waited for an email back. I gave in and sent another email the other day, still no response. I was nearly put to tears I am so confused. He regularly posts here and I will not say his name or anything bad of him. I don't even know how to make him understand I'd just had surgery... I swear he understood.... yet NO contact. Can anyone recommend what to do? I'm so new at this. :o:( I feel like a complete idiot.

First off you should know that you havent done anything wrong!
Has he posted anywhere else on the site since he requested the photos?

If he hasnt then he may be away or for some reason not able to respond at this time.

If he has and he is an honorable Dom then you should hear from him, on the other hand if he isnt an honorable Dom then you should NOT waste any more time on him!

D.I

Calm down and think it through -- sometimes life happens unexpectedly, so consider if it's possible something came up and he's simply unable to respond right now. Lots of things can happen -- catastrophic computer failure's sent many an online relationship into a tizzy. If that's the case, you can work it out.

If that isn't the case, if he's just ignoring you for some reason, then I'd say the fault's with him not with you.

He hasn't logged on here in a few days.... but I just think I upset him. I said no.... but I'd had surgery. I was in a bratty mood. He's amazingly sweet. Amazingly Amazingly. I can't say anything against him. I will just send another email tomorrow and hope maybe he was away... and didn't let me know. :( I just feel so bad. I felt bad immediately and went right away to send the photo he wanted even though I wasn't feeling well.

Thanks for the responses. Appreciate so much. I'm so new to this and feel dumb making this mistake.

I once lost contact with my online dom, I was really upset for a long time, right until she came back. I thought she might be mad, or that something bad had happened to her, but in the end it turned out that she just had some real-life obligations she had to take care of. It sounds like you found a kind master, so I don't think he would leave without a word. Sudden loss of contact is a possibility with online relationships, anything as small as a computer virus or an unpaid bill can cut you off completely. You'll probably keep feeling bad until you see him again, but I don't think it could be your fault, so just keep that in mind and await his return~! ^^ I hope this helped <3

I totally over-reacted. All is well. Embarrassed for posting at all. Feel silly.

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Originally Posted by kur1ous

I totally over-reacted. All is well. Embarrassed for posting at all. Feel silly.

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I'm glad all is well and that it was just overreaction.

Don't feel embarrassed though, this is an opportunity for you to learn something ;)

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Originally Posted by kur1ous

I totally over-reacted. All is well. Embarrassed for posting at all. Feel silly.

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Don't be embarrassed, helping you get through moments like this is what we're here for! ^.^ Everything turned out well, just like we said. :3 Now take all that energy you're using feeling embarrassed and use it to welcome him back! ^.~

Big hugs Kuri no worries about your post as remia says we are all here to help each other as and when we all need it,

I am really pleased all has worked out, maybe an idea to let him know how you felt though so as to hopefully not have to put you through that again, some form of communication would be wise.

I am just glad however that you two are back on track