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We just made it through Thanksgiving with a house full of relatives for the whole weekend, and pretty much put our (wife/sub and me) D/s expressions on hold for the duration. Christmas is coming up and we expect the same again. Any tips for how to "keep things going", even on a more subtle level, with a house full of guests?
Hello Clove~Quote:
Originally Posted by Clove Hitch
Someone is going to have to stand down in How things appear. Probably just like Thanksgiving?
Another method I've been a part of in the past is "We're going to go (insert wherever) and head off to a motel room for a few hours <G>. You can also do things PPL can't actually see <WEG>. Tie wraps under clothing stay put very well. Tape is very usefull. Plugs and dildoes are fun. Imagination is a Great thing <smiles>.
Respectfully~SidheWolf
I agree with the things people can't see. Nothing I love more than to be around a group of people with no undies or something of the like because Master requested it this way. If you want to play pick out quieter ways to have submission shown. Have submission shown with the ability to stay quiet with or without the use of a gag. If you are into pain/pleasure play use things like clothespins, candlewax, a flogger rather than paddles, whips, belts that can be louder. People do go to bed at night lol and honestly playing with a house full of people is exciting in itself always that risk of OH MY getting caught lol. OUtside of the bedroom there are still ways to keep the dynamics up i.e. right before the company comes set up some ground rules. During this time you will call me by "insert first name here" but what you will mean is master. You will show me in small tokens that you still submit to me. This could be done by fixing your plate, bringing you drinks, doing chores around the house that may be yours on a normal basis. These are all things that no one would even think about especially in a house full of company and as hectic as it is. I know this may all seem trivial but it still shows submission and it will be your secret :)
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She wears only skirts.
No panties.
Hose and garter.
Heels. All for you.
You wear a leather vest (easy to do if you have a motorcycle) or leather driving gloves if you have to step outside. (Make a big deal everytime you put them on... smoothing them over your fingers or the back of your hand... Make her help you don them... and give her a caress afterward...)
A clothespin/peg, tied to a string, dangling from the garter or a belt under her clothes... just the right length to dangle between her legs, and bump her thighs when she walks... and bump/rub her pussy when she sits...
A too tight bra... or a loose one with a small tack so that a tug by you on a bra strap or from behind reminds her.
When she sits, legs parted, always open (aka leg posture.) Except when she eats, lips parted, open for you (aka mouth posture.)
When you have those quick moments in the kitchen or elsewhere... a dip of her head. Eyes averted. A whisper here or there of "I'm yours master" where only you can see her face.
Buy her a bracelet, specifically to be worn around family or friend, specifically to be a reminder of her bond to you.
And each night, a routine that she must perform, on her knees, to pay homage to you, to request the boon of your attention.
It's a great time to exert and practice your mental domination and her mental submission.
And instead of a safeword (or rather in addition to a safeword) have two special words or names you can insert into your conversations. One you use to remind her of your domination over her (be sure to make eye contact so you can see her squirm) and one she uses to remind her of her submission to you (again make that eye contact.) See how long you two can last without excusing yourselves for a quick trip to the master bathroom to "clear the pipes."
Nasty time, the holidays, to have the plumbing back up!!
Ooooh, I like all these suggestions!
I use hand signals, wrote about them in my thread in the photo gallery maybe I should copy and paste them in a thread about them. It takes practice on both your parts but allows D/s anywhere anytime. The other ideas are great but commands can be given anywhere with hand signals.
Thanks for the input, all. Looking forward to putting suggestions to practice in a few weeks...