Orientation: Polyamorous, kinky, bi-curious submissive.
Relationship: Girlfriend to male half of M/F married couple.
Looking for: Right now, I am just exploring who might be interested in the kind of relationship I am looking for. I am committed to remaining with my boyfriend, but obviously his time can be stretched fairly thin with supporting two women.
Ultimately, I would like to meet someone okay with poly and first interested in dating to see where the relationship evolves from there. Preferably, that someone is within easy driving/flying distance (California). My primary kink is bondage (mental and physical).
Although I don't tend to think in terms of primaries and secondaries, my preference would be to meet someone interested in pursuing a primary relationship. It's not all that difficult to find people to date, but I'd like to meet someone more interested in a long-term relationship.
I don't want: married or engaged men. I'm looking for a relationship where marriage is an option should we click.
Sidenote: We're talking ethical, consensual polyamory, just to be clear.