Oak
Wild Viking

Thank you, and for your understanding. *smiles*

I'm really sorry to hear that you've had some bad experiences... honestly- I seriously despise my own gender and the things we tend to do in relationships. I've had my share of relationships with women, and I am so grateful to be bisexual not lesbian, so at least I can be happy without them. Everyone bitches about men being jerks, but I really disagree- I've been burned far worse by chicks. Btw, that is awesome that you go to gay bars with your best friend! Most American men would never do that- god I love you Europians!

Hi Oak! And thank you for wanting to be mine -grin-

Oh, Oak... don't say that! I know we don't know each other well, but you seem to be a genuinely caring, nice guy. I'm sure that there are women who would like to be with you. Maybe you just don't see their interest in you. A lot of men just do not recognize how many chicks around them are interested because of either poor self image or sometimes just not picking up on the cues. Master did not always used to have this kind of success ratio, because of those sort of factors. I'd like to think that I have something to do with how confident and aggressive he is now in his pursuits because of my worship of him and my pointing out over the many years, all of the women that were attracted to him. Of course too, we were not always non-monogomous, and he never cheated on me even once while we were agreed to be monogomous. I think that those years, followed by the poly years added up to a much more confident man who's eyes are now able to see things that he couldn't always see in women. My best advice to you, coming from both a slave and a woman, is be confident if you get the most remote signal from a girl. Don't question it, just pursue it actively, intently, and insensely. Sometimes women don't know what the hell we want until we are forced into the spotlight of a man's desire. Be alert, be active, cast a large net and be INTENSE!!!

Yeah, I hate it when people just refuse to admit their failings- especially when it is a failing that can put other people at risk. Thank you very much for your words about our relationship. It is so hard for people to see the beauty, honesty, openness, and happiness in our dynamic. It's hard to always have to be on the defensive about it. I think the very most admirable part of his success with women is that he is never dishonest with them about his intentions, what he is looking for, and that he is very happily married. A few chicks worry about the "wife issue" but he always just hands them his cell phone and says "call my house and ask my wife if she minds". Women really dig the up front honesty and his self confidence in my opinion. As far as jealous males go... he has had a few close calls- nearly been caught by husbands or boyfriends. But so far so good lol.

Actually, it's not really the kids... we are very adept at working around them and though we have a 12 yr old and a 1 yr old our games and general M/s dynamic is rarely affected. Actually, it's because neither of us drive. Me, because I am a terrible and frankly, dangerous driver and him because he has frequent seizures. However, he is incredibly good at finding women in our neighborhood that are interested in him. Often, he just goes out for a walk and can score a new sexual partner. It is fucking uncanny! Well, I know very well why women want to fuck him *grin* as he is very attractive and great in bed, but even still- it's really incredible the way he can constantly find new partners in a relatively small area around our home. You can imagine my pride at being his only slave...his chosen one... the one he loves, when he has women falling at his feet left and right!

Aww... I'm sorry that you haven't been happy. Haha... I like your suggestion, unfortunately it doesn't really work for our situation. Oh, guess what?... I am being cucked again today- different girl. That's twice in about 24 hours. God, how I admire and love my Master!!!