until you know someone real well, on line is the only way. However a true master slave relationship must be real life. You need to hear, feel, touch, and sense, as a master, to know what to do. Remember there are sickos in every culture so be wise and take your time. if you see me on line and want to chat feel free. I am a master but semi retired. what you are looking for is a soulmate and master, search wisely, and get to know each other as friends first. I have no sub or slave at the present. I am unsure whether I will take another