Firstly, I don't have a man--I serve my Mistress. As for the question, hm. It really varies from relationship to relationship. I'd suggest just asking him about it at some point, really. I don't know of a specific "way" in which to do so, though.
does your man come up with everything or if there is something you want how do you go about bringing it up and asking for it? I told my man that I felt like the clips nad whips were rewards for a job well done- but I would like to do more- like peircing and I don't know how to ask/tell him.
Sure, what sort?
hi. I am new and have read alot of posts- I was wondering if I could ask for some advice?