Conversation Between chris_0177 and Mistress_Dee

perhaps one day i might meet a women who will dominate me, sadly though, i cant see it happening... myabe i'm looking in all the wrong places. untill then i guess, i'm a switch.
also, when i say simple, i dont mean that in a negative way... i intended it mean, like, serenity, fufilment, no more fuss!... sort of thing?!...ya know.x

well chris, you think that 'things are a lot more simple' when you are a slave??? - I hope you are lucky enough to find a Mistress who makes your life unbearably complicated - and that you love every minute of it!

me personally, my desire to submit, or my reasons for i supose are techincally the same or similar to your desire to control.... i guess thouhg, gettting a fufilling feeling when i please the women who i'm submitting to... also the fact that when you are the slave, things are alot more simple, your actions are controlled and your life has direction and meaning... the meaning being to serve. the fear of being alone or useless is gone, you have a purpose. x

???what do I mean 'getting into the head of a male sub'? = if I was with a vanilla guy, he would treat me very differently to a fetish/bdsm-orientated guy
???do you agree
?what's the motivation behind mr fetish/bdsm behaviour etc - I can appreciate that every person is unique, but ? are there some common threads among subs/slaves etc? (I dont want a wishy-washy answer)

well i havnt written anything yet.. but its something i defantly intend to do, i just need to find the idea for a storie that gives me the passion and motivation to write it, if that makes any sence! haha.... what do you mean get into the head of a male sub anyway?... i mean, on a surface perspectiv, i guess you mean understand what makes them want to submit?....well anyway, i will defantly keep you posted on a story i will write. ciaox

ps. my email address is mistressdee1@hotmail.com
- if you want to read my 'profile', try 'mydommespace' or 'fetlife'...I have played with subs/slaves etc, and now I want to understand more (get into the heads of male subs etc)
- dont be shy...perhaps you can give me some more insight...

?so have you written anything Chris? (feeling generous, gave you a capital letter!) ?would you like to try writing something?, you seem to be the creative type...

hello, my name is chris, i'm a male sub living in the uk, i figure if you wanted contact as such, this is it... my email is hairbear0177@yahoo.co.uk i would like to chat more, etc. x