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I second everything Pearlgem said. Stay strong...this too shall pass.

Laila, I'm so sorry you lost your Master and with him a good bit of your heart and your hopes. It's like a bereavement and you'll just have to grieve the loss. I'm sorry, that hurts badly. But through all your hurt don't ever forget you are lovable and you deserve to find the love you seek, a safe and trusting place for your beautiful gift of submission. It will come to you; you'll see more clearly from this heartache once the tears stop. You deserve to love and be loved the way you wish - hold on to that.

All my love and *big hugs*,

Pearlgem x x

While my Wife and i met in a bdsm chat room what brought U/us together was true love for O/one another. O/our relationship is built on love and happiness. The bdsm side comes second.
I'm not being judgemental but it sounds like you have based things with A on love. It also sounds like A has based things on bdsm.
W/we have many friends into bdsm and have seen many relationships fail where the true attraction is bdsm and not love.
You are the only one who knows you and what the situation is between you and A but from past experience I would advise a sit down and heart to heart talk and make sure you both are on the same page.
Again, I hope I didn't butt in on something I know little about but your story sounds exactly like one I have heard to many times before.

Glad to see it's all working out for you!

Hi Laila, so how your story end?? did he tell you his answer or still keep you in the edge of confussion?

Hope it all works out for you. These relationships are much more difficult to form and maintain than "normal" ones.